In Australia, marriages must be conducted by an authorised celebrant to be legally recognised. You can choose between a civil (non-religious) or religious celebrant — and that’s where I come in.

The ACT doesn’t have a traditional “registry office” option, so if you’re after something simple and legal, my Simply Legal package is your alternative. All you need is one month’s notice, two witnesses, and the right paperwork — I’ll guide you through the rest.

Any kind you like.

Your ceremony can be short and simple, warm and heartfelt, traditional, modern, or a beautiful mix of everything that feels like you. There are only a few legal words that must be included — the rest is yours to shape.

If you’re unsure where to start, I’ll guide you through ideas, readings, rituals, and structures that align with your story and style.

Here’s how it all comes together:

1. Reach out to check my availability and arrange an obligation-free in-person or video chat to make sure we’re the right fit.

2. Secure your date with a 20% booking fee and signed agreement.

3. Plan together — I’ll send you a Ceremony Planning Kit and we’ll meet to complete your Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM).

4. Share your story — through a fun couple’s questionnaire and planning session.

5. Finalise details — I’ll help refine your vows, structure, and flow, and we’ll do a full rehearsal or run-through.

6. Celebrate — on the day, I’ll arrive early, set up my PA and paperwork, and ensure everything runs seamlessly.

Throughout the process, you’ll have unlimited support by phone, email, or in person.

You’ll find all pricing and inclusions on my Ceremony Collection page. Each package offers a different level of personalisation and support — from simple legal ceremonies to fully bespoke celebrations.

Yes. As a small thank you for your service, I offer a 5% discount on all ceremony packages to current and former Defence personnel, and Police, Fire, and Paramedic staff.
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Always something that complements your style and setting. We’ll chat about your theme or colour palette ahead of time, and I’m happy to send outfit options for you to choose from.

I’m based in Canberra and regularly officiate throughout the region — including Murrumbateman, Yass, and Braidwood.

I also happily travel further afield — South Coast, Southern Highlands, Snowy Mountains, Sydney — with travel beyond 70 km charged at $1 per km (round trip). For significant travel requiring accommodation, we’ll discuss details in advance.

Absolutely. Personal vows are one of the most beautiful parts of any ceremony. I’ll provide examples, structure, and feedback — and make sure the required legal lines are included. You can be as poetic, funny, or heartfelt as you like.

Yes! Whether it’s a handfasting, sand ceremony, cultural blessing, or something entirely unique — I’ll help you weave these moments naturally into your ceremony. There are endless ways to make it meaningful.

The Chinese tea ceremony is one of the most meaningful traditions you can include in your wedding day.

It is not simply a ritual—it is a moment to pause, acknowledge your parents and elders, and express gratitude for the love, guidance, and support that has brought you to this point.

In many ways, it marks a quiet transition: from being part of your family as children, to stepping forward together as a new family of your own.

Today, the ceremony typically honours both families, creating a shared moment of connection, respect, and unity.

When the Tea Ceremony Takes Place

There is no single “right” time to hold a tea ceremony.

It is often shaped around the flow of your wedding day and what feels most natural for you and your families.

Common options include:

• The day before the wedding, as a private family gathering
• The morning or early afternoon on the wedding day
• Before the main ceremony, as a quiet and intentional moment
• During cocktail hour, allowing guests to observe
• During the reception, often before formalities or before dancing begins

What matters most is not the timing, but that the moment feels unhurried, present, and meaningful.

What You Will Need

The ceremony itself is simple in structure, but thoughtful in its preparation.

Most couples will organise:

• A tea set, including a teapot and small cups
• Tea leaves (loose leaf is traditionally preferred)
• A source of hot water (such as a kettle or carafe)
• Seating for parents and elders
• Kneeling pillows (optional—some couples choose to stand and bow)
• A small table for the tea service
• Red envelopes or jewellery gifts from family members
• Traditional attire (optional), such as a qipao or cheongsam

The setting does not need to be elaborate—what matters is that it feels considered and respectful of the moment.

How the Ceremony Unfolds

While each family may have its own variations, the structure of the tea ceremony is gently guided and easy to follow.

The couple typically begins by preparing the tea, creating a sense of intention and care.

Parents or elders are invited to sit, usually beginning with the groom’s family or, in some cases, grandparents as a sign of respect.

The couple then approaches together—either kneeling or standing—and offers tea to each family member in turn.

This gesture symbolises gratitude, respect, and the acknowledgement of family.

As the tea is received, parents or elders may offer a sip, share words of blessing, and present a red envelope or jewellery as a gesture of welcome and support.

The ceremony continues through each family member, creating a series of small, meaningful exchanges.

A Note on Guidance

While the tea ceremony is deeply traditional, it does not need to feel complicated or overwhelming.

Having someone guide the flow—whether a celebrant or a trusted family member—helps ensure that each step feels clear, calm, and well-paced.

When supported thoughtfully, the ceremony becomes what it is meant to be:

a grounded, heartfelt moment of connection between generations.

How I Support This Ceremony

If you choose to include a tea ceremony as part of your day, I can guide the process in Mandarin, helping ensure the ceremony flows naturally while remaining respectful to tradition and meaningful to your family.

This allows you to stay present in the moment—without needing to think about what comes next.

To complete your Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM), you’ll need:

• Your passport (Australian or foreign), or your birth certificate and photo ID

• Evidence of divorce or death of a previous spouse (if applicable)

• Official English translations if documents are in another language

I’ll help you prepare and submit everything correctly.

Yes.
If you’re in Australia, I can witness your NOIM via Zoom or FaceTime.
If you’re overseas, you’ll need an authorised witness such as an Australian Consular Officer, Diplomatic Officer, Notary Public, or other approved official — I’ll guide you through that process.

Anyone over 18 who understands the ceremony and is present on the day. Most couples choose close friends or family members.

It depends on your package and preferences — from a 5-minute legal-only ceremony to a 20–30 minute story-rich experience. I’ll help you strike the perfect balance between meaningful and memorable.

I’ll lodge all legal paperwork with Births, Deaths and Marriages. You’ll receive instructions to apply for your official marriage certificate (used for name changes, passports, etc.).

You can also request a keepsake copy of your vows and ceremony script as a memento.

Yes! You can have a Celebration of Marriage — a beautiful, symbolic ceremony without the legal component. It’s a lovely way to include family or friends who couldn’t be there the first time.

Always.
Together Begins proudly celebrates all forms of love. I welcome couples of every background, belief, and identity — because love, in all its forms, deserves to be recognised.

Legally, your Notice of Intended Marriage must be lodged at least one month and no more than 18 months before your wedding.

That said, popular dates fill fast — so as soon as you’ve chosen your date, reach out and let’s get you officially on the calendar.

Absolutely. I work with some incredible photographers, stylists, and florists in the region and would be delighted to connect you with trusted professionals who share your vision.