Frequently asked questions.

  • In Australia, marriages must be conducted by an authorised celebrant to be legally recognised. You can choose between a civil (non-religious) or religious celebrant — and that’s where I come in.

    The ACT doesn’t have a traditional “registry office” option, so if you’re after something simple and legal, my Simply Legal package is your alternative. All you need is one month’s notice, two witnesses, and the right paperwork — I’ll guide you through the rest.

  • Any kind you like.

    Your ceremony can be short and simple, warm and heartfelt, traditional, modern, or a beautiful mix of everything that feels like you. There are only a few legal words that must be included — the rest is yours to shape.

    If you’re unsure where to start, I’ll guide you through ideas, readings, rituals, and structures that align with your story and style.

  • Here’s how it all comes together:

    1. Reach out to check my availability and arrange an obligation-free in-person or video chat to make sure we’re the right fit.

    2. Secure your date with a 20% booking fee and signed agreement.

    3. Plan together — I’ll send you a Ceremony Planning Kit and we’ll meet to complete your Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM).

    4. Share your story — through a fun couple’s questionnaire and planning session.

    5. Finalise details — I’ll help refine your vows, structure, and flow, and we’ll do a full rehearsal or run-through.

    6. Celebrate — on the day, I’ll arrive early, set up my PA and paperwork, and ensure everything runs seamlessly.

    Throughout the process, you’ll have unlimited support by phone, email, or in person.

  • You’ll find all pricing and inclusions on my Ceremony Collection page. Each package offers a different level of personalisation and support — from simple legal ceremonies to fully bespoke celebrations.

  • Yes. As a small thank you for your service, I offer a 5% discount on all ceremony packages to current and former Defence personnel, and Police, Fire, and Paramedic staff.
    Valid identification will need to be sighted.

  • Always something that complements your style and setting. We’ll chat about your theme or colour palette ahead of time, and I’m happy to send outfit options for you to choose from.

  • I’m based in Canberra and regularly officiate throughout the region — including Murrumbateman, Yass, and Braidwood.

    I also happily travel further afield — South Coast, Southern Highlands, Snowy Mountains, Sydney — with travel beyond 70 km charged at $1 per km (round trip). For significant travel requiring accommodation, we’ll discuss details in advance.

  • Absolutely. Personal vows are one of the most beautiful parts of any ceremony. I’ll provide examples, structure, and feedback — and make sure the required legal lines are included. You can be as poetic, funny, or heartfelt as you like.

  • Yes! Whether it’s a handfasting, sand ceremony, cultural blessing, or something entirely unique — I’ll help you weave these moments naturally into your ceremony. There are endless ways to make it meaningful.

  • To complete your Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM), you’ll need:

    • Your passport (Australian or foreign), or your birth certificate and photo ID

    • Evidence of divorce or death of a previous spouse (if applicable)

    • Official English translations if documents are in another language

    I’ll help you prepare and submit everything correctly.

  • Yes.
    If you’re in Australia, I can witness your NOIM via Zoom or FaceTime.
    If you’re overseas, you’ll need an authorised witness such as an Australian Consular Officer, Diplomatic Officer, Notary Public, or other approved official — I’ll guide you through that process.

  • Anyone over 18 who understands the ceremony and is present on the day. Most couples choose close friends or family members.

  • It depends on your package and preferences — from a 5-minute legal-only ceremony to a 20–30 minute story-rich experience. I’ll help you strike the perfect balance between meaningful and memorable.

  • I’ll lodge all legal paperwork with Births, Deaths and Marriages. You’ll receive instructions to apply for your official marriage certificate (used for name changes, passports, etc.).

    You can also request a keepsake copy of your vows and ceremony script as a memento.

  • Yes! You can have a Celebration of Marriage — a beautiful, symbolic ceremony without the legal component. It’s a lovely way to include family or friends who couldn’t be there the first time.

  • Always.
    Together Begins proudly celebrates all forms of love. I welcome couples of every background, belief, and identity — because love, in all its forms, deserves to be recognised.

  • Legally, your Notice of Intended Marriage must be lodged at least one month and no more than 18 months before your wedding.

    That said, popular dates fill fast — so as soon as you’ve chosen your date, reach out and let’s get you officially on the calendar.

  • Absolutely. I work with some incredible photographers, stylists, and florists in the region and would be delighted to connect you with trusted professionals who share your vision.